When you are strong, do not boast
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When you are strong, do not boast

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Do not boast about your strength, ability, or success, treat others with humility and prudence, recognizing the transience of power.

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No one should self-promote, or display arrogant behavior due to their strength, abilities, or achievements. The text emphasizes the importance of modest behavior towards others and suggests to avoid pride, arrogance and haughtiness. It emphasizes the need to remember that power is not permanent and can change, while humility and prudence are virtues we must develop. Additionally, recognizing and appreciating the contributions of others, rather than self-promotion, leads to more meaningful and fulfilling human relationships.

The Philosopher

Cleobulus

Greek Philosopher
(630-560 B.C.)

Cleobulus, known for his inventiveness, served as the tyrant of Lindos, on the island of Rhodes. He emerged as one of the most luminous figures of antiquity and was included in the circle of the Seven Sages. His life began around 630 BC and ended around 560 BC, an age relatively long for that era, with his years spanning a time of great changes and cultural flourishing.

In his personal life, Cleobulus was married and the father of Cleobulina, a young woman noted for the riddles she composed, indicating that the family’s wisdom was not limited to the father alone.

Coming from a royal lineage and claiming descent from Hercules, Cleobulus travelled, in his youth, to Egypt, where he was taught philosophy, by the mystic priests, enriching his wisdom and knowledge.

Political and Cultural Legacy

His reign coincided with that of other great figures, such as Periander and Solon. As a ruler, he played a pivotal role in the political transition of Lindos, towards more liberal and democratic structures.

Regarding his political and cultural contribution, Cleobulus restored significant works of infrastructure and religious worship in Lindos, while the cultural peak, during his reign, left an indelible mark on history.

Poetic Dimension

His poetic discourse, consisting of songs and riddles, totalling some 3,000 verses, reveals the depth of his thought, with his aphorism: “μέτρον ἄριστον” (moderation is best), counted among the most famous ancient Greek sayings, exemplifying the character of the Greek spirit.

Also, attributed to him, is the following riddle:

“One father, twelve sons. Each of them has twice thirty daughters;

Half are white, the others black;

Immortal they are, yet they all end.”

The solution to this is: “time,” as time has twelve months, and each month has thirty days and thirty nights. The days follow one after the other. As one dies, it gives birth to another, and so on.

Legacy

The legacy of Cleobulus is kept alive, through his tomb in Lindos, where an epigrammatic dedication reminds us of his invaluable contribution to cultural and spiritual heritage. Cleobulus remains a luminous figure of the Greek spirit, serving as a source of inspiration and wisdom.

Further Material

A New Way of Looking at the Personality of the Bragger

The article from Psychology Today discusses a new perspective on understanding the personality of individuals who frequently brag or boast. It explores the underlying psychological motivations and provides insights into why some people engage in bragging behaviour.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201905/new-way-looking-the-personality-the-bragger
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How To Brag Without The Backlash, According To New Research

The linked article discusses strategies for self-promotion without facing negative consequences. It is based on new research and provides insights on how to effectively showcase achievements and skills without appearing arrogant or facing backlash.
https://www.forbes.com/sites/kimelsesser/2023/08/15/how-to-brag-without-the-backlash-according-to-new-research/
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Let’s hear it for the dying virtue of modesty

The article discusses the importance of modesty as a virtue and the need to appreciate its value in society. It emphasizes that modesty should be celebrated and recognized as a valuable trait.
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/feb/05/lets-hear-it-for-the-dying-virtue-of-modesty
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The paradoxical power of humility: how being humble is a strength

Humility has many benefits, including improved relationships, better teamwork, and overall well-being. It’s not weakness but a healthy self-esteem. Benefits include recognizing limitations, seeking feedback, and respecting others. Humble individuals celebrate others’ success and make effective leaders. It also contributes to better physical and mental health. Strategies for practicing humility include active listening and supporting others genuinely. Genuine humility enhances personal and professional connections while boosting performance and well-being.
https://nesslabs.com/humility
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The Underappreciated Power of Humility

The article discusses the shift in society’s focus from integrity to individual achievement, emphasizing the need to cultivate humility. It points out that humility, often misunderstood, is essential for maintaining perspective and not prioritizing personal success over virtues like integrity and service.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/anxiety-in-high-achievers/202301/the-power-of-humility
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Why People Boast (and why nobody cares!)

The article discusses why people often boast and highlights that such behavior is generally not well-received by others. It explores the reasons behind boasting and suggests that humility and genuine connections are more valuable than self-promotion.
https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/why-people-boast-nobody-cares-tony-moorcroft/
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Why You Should Boast About Your Weaknesses, Not Your Accomplishments

The article discusses why it’s more valuable to boast about one’s weaknesses rather than accomplishments, emphasizing the role of humility and vulnerability in personal growth and faith.
https://relevantmagazine.com/faith/why-you-should-boast-about-your-weaknesses-not-your-accomplishments/
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