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Restrain your tongue

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Control your language and use your words with wisdom and respect.

We should use our speech responsibly and carefully, expressing our thoughts with clarity and understanding. The importance of authenticity, honesty and sensitivity in communication with others is emphasized. By controlling our language, we can avoid misunderstandings, encourage respect and promote harmonious and meaningful communication. Respecting diverse opinions and avoiding prejudice, through careful word choice and usage, enhances interpersonal relationships and contributes to an environment of understanding and tolerance.

The Philosopher

Chilon

Greek Philosopher

(600-520 B.C.)

Chilon, the son of Damagetos, one of the Seven Sages of antiquity, was born in Sparta, in 600 BC and served as Ephor in 556 BC (during the 56th Olympiad). His governance was marked by success and left a significant imprint on the history of the Spartan regime, enhancing the institution of the Ephors and reducing royal power, in favour of popular sovereignty.

Philosophy and Laconism

Known for his brevity, Chilon represented Laconism, the art of concise and substantive expression. His wisdom, moral integrity and insight, made him an admired figure for subsequent philosophers and later generations.

Teachings and Maxims

For Chilon, the most challenging things for a person were keeping secrets, temperance and enduring injustice. His maxims, such as “Nothing in excess,” “Know thyself,” and “Surety brings ruin,” reflect his deep understanding of human weaknesses and the need for self-awareness and moderation.

Significantly, when asked what is most difficult for a person, he replied: “To keep secrets, to properly dispose of one’s anger and to endure being wronged”… the most difficult for a person is to keep secrets, control their nerves and suffer injustice.

Legacy and Memory

Chilon’s death in Pisa, Sicily, was marked by a fortunate death, occurring as his son returned victorious from the Olympic Games. Sparta honored his memory with a statue and an epigram praising his wisdom and his contributions to the warlike city. Chilon’s sayings at Delphi reflect his enduring influence on the ancient Greek world and the history of philosophy.

Further Material

A Tamed Tongue As a Type of Temperance: Self-control in Speech

The article discusses the importance of self-control in speech as a form of temperance. It emphasizes the need for thoughtful and controlled communication, highlighting how exercising restraint in speech is a vital aspect of personal discipline and respect for others.
https://scholeacademy.com/a-tamed-tongue-as-a-type-of-temperance-self-control-in-speech/
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The Art of Authentic Communication: Interpreting Truth, Avoiding Exaggeration

The article by D.G. Shastri on Medium discusses the importance of honesty and authenticity in communication. It emphasizes the need to avoid exaggerations and maintain truthfulness to foster trust and clear understanding in personal and professional interactions. The article highlights the value of authentic communication in building and sustaining healthy, honest relationships.
https://medium.com/@dgshastri/the-art-of-authentic-communication-interpreting-truth-avoiding-exaggeration-111bf39538aa
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The Power of Words

The article “The Power of Words” on The Health Journals website discusses the significant impact that words have on our mental and emotional well-being. It emphasizes how the language we use can shape our thoughts, actions, and interactions with others. The piece underscores the importance of choosing words thoughtfully, as they can profoundly influence both personal health and relationships.
https://www.thehealthjournals.com/the-power-of-words/
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The Power of Words: Why We Need to be Intentional With the Things We Say

The article emphasizes the significant impact words have on our thoughts, emotions, and behaviours. It discusses how the language we use can shape our experiences and the importance of being mindful and intentional in our communication. The article underscores the power of words in influencing not only our personal mindset but also our interactions with others.
https://blog.smilingmind.com.au/the-power-of-words-why-we-need-to-be-intentional-with-the-things-we-say
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The three gates of speech

The article “The Three Gates of Speech” by Simon B. Kenny on his website discusses a thoughtful approach to communication, emphasizing the importance of passing one’s words through three metaphorical ‘gates’ before speaking. These gates are: truthfulness, kindness, and necessity. The article suggests that by considering whether what we say is true, kind, and necessary, we can improve the quality of our interactions and relationships. This approach encourages more mindful and responsible communication.
https://www.simonbkenny.com/the-three-gates-of-speech/
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