Respond at the right time
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Respond at the right time

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Ἀποκρίνου ἐν καιρῷ

Respond with the right timing and avoid giving hasty and untimely answers.

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We don’t have to respond immediately to what we hear, many times hasty answers are wrong and are not said at the right time for the other person to listen to us. We must listen carefully before answering and of course express our thoughts with meekness (#91), clarity and decency and adapt our communication to the needs and circumstances of our interlocutor. Additionally, maintaining open lines of communication and exploring solutions through dialogue is essential to avoid misunderstandings and strengthen relationships.

The Philosopher

Bias

Greek Philosopher
(600-530 B.C.)

Bias, one of the Seven Sages of antiquity, lived in Priene in Ionia, during the 6th century BC. The son of Teutamus, Bias was a fervent supporter of his homeland and he is recognized for his unusually strong sense of justice.

Defence of the Unjustly Accused

In the courts, Bias advocated for free, defending unjustly accused citizens, with rare legal prowess. His fame flourished, around 570 BC, a time when Lydia was under the reign of Alyattes and Croesus.

Recognition of Wisdom

A legend states that when the Athenians found a bronze tripod inscribed with: “to the wisest,” they decided to send it to Bias, considering him the wisest of his time. However, when informed, Bias rejected the gift, claiming that only Apollo (the God of ancient Greece) is truly wise.

Teaching and Maxims

Bias’s teachings come to us through maxims, that reflect his deep understanding of life and society. Among these, his view stands out that the ideal democracy is one in which everyone respects the law, as if it were a tyrant, an idea that influenced the political system of Athens.

Legacy and Honor

His compatriots honoured his wisdom and contributions, not only during his lifetime, but also after his death, by erecting a monument in his honour. Bias, who served justice selflessly and modestly, passed away at a great age while defending a fellow citizen in court, leaving behind an admirable legacy of wisdom and humanity.

 

Further Material

The Surprising Power of Pausing Before Speaking

The article explains that consciously pausing before speaking when we’re emotionally triggered allows us to calm down, reflect and communicate respectfully; pausing improves understanding, reduces tension, and gives time to regulate emotions.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/intimacy-a-path-toward-spirituality/201906/the-surprising-power-of-pausing-before-speaking
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Before You Speak: The Pause That Changes Every Conversation

The article explores the psychology and neuroscience of pausing; a brief pause engages the prefrontal cortex and calms the amygdala, transforming reaction into reflective response; offers practical tips for applying the art of pausing in everyday communication.
https://www.biripublishing.com/blogs/mindful-communication/before-you-speak-the-pause-that-changes-every-conversation
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Commit to Timely Responding If You Want To Be Successfu

The article stresses the critical role of timely responses in shaping perceptions of capability and commitment in both personal and professional realms. It suggests that prompt replies convey respect and positivity, offering tips like auto-replies and quick updates to enhance responsiveness. The key conclusion is that timely responding is essential for maintaining relationships and achieving success.
https://stress2strengthcounseling.com/commit-to-timely-responding-if-you-want-to-be-successful/
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The Importance Of Our Timely Responses

The article highlights the critical role of timely and responsive communication in leadership. It points out that leaders’ failure to promptly respond to their teams can lead to a breakdown in trust and respect, negatively impacting organizational culture and innovation. The author urges leaders to prioritize responsiveness to their employees, regardless of their busy schedules, to foster a positive and effective work environment.
https://www.commonsenseleadership.com/the-importance-of-our-timely-responses/
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What it REALLY Means to Respond in a Timely Manner

Timely responding is key in virtual team leadership, requiring prompt replies, reasonable timelines, and positive behavior modeling. Delays in response can harm credibility and motivation, necessitating proactive measures and performance boundaries by leaders. Business success also hinges on focus, self-awareness, self-mastery, effective time management, and quick decision-making.
https://vfcoaching.net/what-it-really-means-to-respond-in-a-timely-manner/
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