Don’t fight the absent
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Don’t fight the absent

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Not to badmouth, verbally attack, or clash with someone who is not present to defend themselves.

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Avoid getting involved in disagreements, with people who are not present and able to defend themselves. It is unfair and dishonest, true bravery requires face-to-face confrontation. Bad talk in the absence of others destroys trust between people and breaks friendships.

The Philosopher

Pittacus

Greek Philosopher
(650-570 B.C.)

Pittacus, one of the Seven Sages of antiquity, distinguished himself as a politician and general in Mytilene, during the 7th and 6th centuries BC. Born in Mytilene, Pittacus came from the family of Hyrradius, a Thracian of the middle class and an aristocratic mother, but was socially upgraded after his marriage to a member of the powerful Pentilid family in the island.

 Military Glory and Political Wisdom

In the political arena, Pittacus entered in 612 BC, when, together with Epimenides and Kikis, he killed the tyrant Melanchros, earning the esteem of his fellow citizens. Militarily, he distinguished himself during the confrontation with the Athenians over Sigeion, where he defeated Phrynons, confirming his reputation as an experienced warrior.

Aisymnetic Tenure and Legislative Reforms

Recognized for his wisdom and virtue, he was elected “aisymnetes,” tasked with peacefully resolving internal disputes. Among his legislative achievements, stands out the law, which imposed double punishment for offenses committed under the influence of alcohol, thus promoting the principle of self-control and responsible civic behaviour.

Final Years and Legacy

After serving his state with devotion, Pittacus chose to live as an ordinary citizen, in his later years, leaving behind an indelible mark of wisdom and justice. His wisdom transcended the borders of the island, making him a reference point for many seekers of wisdom and knowledge throughout Greece.

Further Material

The Negative Impact of Gossip in the Workplace

The article on Syntrio titled “The Negative Impact of Gossip in the Workplace” addresses the detrimental effects that gossip can have in a professional setting. It highlights how gossip undermines trust among colleagues, damages reputations, and creates a toxic work environment. The piece emphasizes the importance of fostering a positive and respectful workplace culture to counteract the harmful influence of gossip.
https://www.syntrio.com/blog/the-negative-impact-of-gossip-in-the-workplace/
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The psychology of gossip..and it’s not good

The article “The Psychology of Gossip and It’s Not Good” by Mukti Masih on Medium examines the negative aspects of gossip. It discusses the psychological reasons behind why people gossip and highlights the harmful effects it can have on both individuals and social dynamics. The article emphasizes the importance of being aware of the impact gossip can have and the need for more positive and constructive forms of communication.
https://medium.com/@muktimasih/the-psychology-of-gossip-and-its-not-good-35eff5f8c37e
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The Psychology of Talking Behind Someone’s Back: Understanding the Motivations and Effects

The article “The Psychology of Talking Behind Someone’s Back” on Medium discusses the motivations and effects of speaking about others in their absence. It delves into the psychological factors driving this behavior and examines its impact on relationships and social dynamics. The article aims to provide a deeper understanding of why people engage in such conversations and the consequences that can arise from them.
https://medium.com/@simple2d/the-psychology-of-talking-behind-someones-back-understanding-the-motivations-and-effects-319213121f23
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The Science Behind Why People Gossip—And When It Can Be a Good Thing

The TIME article “Why Do People Gossip?” examines the reasons behind why people engage in gossip. It explores gossip’s role as a social tool that can have both positive and negative impacts on relationships and communities. The article discusses how gossip serves various functions, such as information sharing, social bonding, and influencing group dynamics. It also delves into the psychological aspects of why individuals are drawn to gossip.
https://time.com/5680457/why-do-people-gossip/
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